They say confidence is key
The problem is … what if you don’t have the
Where does confidence come from?
It doesn’t come from telling yourself in the mirror that you are “confident and capable” trust me I tried
So where does it come from:
1. Assessing your skills and accomplishments
2. Having belief if your own skills and abilities
3. Experience exercising those skills and abilities with positive outcome
Confidence is NOT an innate trait.
It’s a quality gained through experience.
So the good news is: you can become confident.
The bad news is: you will have to get off your 
, try, fail, try again, fail a few more times, learn and then – hallelujah – you have gained confidence in that particular skill.
Now, you pick a new skill and do it all over again without loss of enthusiasm.
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